BEYOND Podcast Ep. 277: Stop Letting Other People’s Opinions of You Run Your Life

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The coach for moms called to business and host of the podcast BEYOND. I'm on a mission to help you grow as a person. 

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“What will they think?”

The opinions of other people weigh more heavily on us than we might be willing to admit. The truth is that we spend a lot of time and energy thinking about what we imagine other people might think about us. And I say imagine – what we IMAGINE other people might think of us – because we rarely know what other people are really thinking.

Are other people's opinions – real or imagined – running your life? It’s something a lot of us struggle with. It impacts the decisions we make, it influences how we show up in the world, it often adds to our stress and discontent and is rarely helpful. The truth is that many of us are going through our days, living our lives based not on what is true about ourselves or what WE think about ourselves, but what WE THINK other people’s opinions are about us.

On this episode of BEYOND, you'll learn:

  • Why we easily believe and often value what others think about us

  • What other people's opinions of us has to do with our survival

  • How trusting in others' opinions of you holds you back and keeps you from living a whole, full life

  • Why we might find ourselves in the middle of a life that looks and feels very different than we thought it would

  • The one belief that leads us to outsource our opinions and decisions

  • Living your life vs. living a life based on what others think you should do
  • 3 things you can do to stop letting other people's opinions to run your life
  • The connection between what you fear and what you value

I get goosebumps thinking about what is possible in your life and business when you learn how to leverage your mindset and your messaging. If you're ready to make 2024 a different kind of year, if you’re tired of spinning your wheels and you’re ready for mindset and business support that will help you simplify, see more sales and create the kind of life and business you’re excited to wake up to, the kind that serves not only your clients but you and your family well, I want to invite you to apply for private 1:1 coaching.
Working with me privately is kind of like having a business therapist, marketing strategist and personal trainer for your brain all-in-one. Your next step is to apply for coaching at There, you’ll answer some questions about your business, where you are right now and where you’d like to be moving forward, and if I’m confident I can help you get there, I’ll invite you to a call where we can talk all the details and get your questions answered so that you can  make the best decision for you.

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This is the podcast for moms called to business as creative entrepreneurs and coaches. Through mindset and strategy, I help you leverage your faith and your beliefs to get out of your own way so that you simplify, focus and build a business that serves you, your family and your clients well – a business run with integrity that creates both income and impact. Around here, we go beyond the surface and dive deep into what matters most. We talk about mindset, faith, motherhood, money, marketing, messaging and more. So much of why you were called to business is because of who you’re becoming along the way. As your coach, my job is to help you grow your business. My mission is to help you grow as a person.


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